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Learning to Pray from Jesus

On By Jason SmithIn Devotional, Theology for LifeLeave a comment

Nearly every Christian I’ve talked to would like to grow in their prayer life. And who better to learn from than Jesus of Nazareth? He wants us to pray with greater passion, persistence, and expectancy. According to Jesus, this kind of effective prayer can be learned. That’s why Jesus once told His disciples, “When you pray, say this…”

“Father, hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come.
Give us each day our daily bread, and forgive us our sins,
for we ourselves forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
And lead us not into temptation.” (Luke 11:2-4, ESV)

Persistence in Prayer

I once read about a prayer adventure related by Doug Coe, who has a ministry in Washington DC. Doug tells about a time when Bob, a brand new Christian, came up and said, “Hey, I’ve been reading the Bible and I found where Jesus says, ‘Ask whatever you will in My Name, and you shall receive it.’ Is that really true?”

Doug said, “Well, it’s not a blank check. You have to take it in context of the teachings of the whole Scripture on prayer. But yes—it really is true. Jesus really does answer prayer.”

“Great!” said Bob. “Then I gotta start praying for something. I think I’ll pray for Africa.”

Doug said, “That’s kind of a broad target. Why don’t you narrow it down to one country?”

“All right,” Bob said. “I’ll pray for Kenya.” Bob didn’t know anyone in Kenya. He just wanted to pray for Kenya. So Doug made an unusual agreement. He told Bob that if he prayed for Kenya every day for six months straight and nothing happened, Doug would pay him $500. And if Bob did not pray every day, the whole deal was off.

Bob began to pray and for a long time nothing happened, but he kept at it. One night, he was at a dinner in Washington. He met a woman who helped run an orphanage… in Kenya. Bob really wanted that $500, but he just couldn’t keep it to himself. He said he had been praying for Kenya. He showed so much interest that the woman invited Bob to come visit the orphanage in Kenya. 

Bob was appalled at the poverty and lack of medical supplies he saw. So Bob continued praying. He then wrote to as many pharmaceutical companies as he could, reminding them that they throw away a lot of unsold medical supplies. Bob asked that they instead send those supplies to this orphanage in Kenya. 

Months later, he learned that the orphanage had received over a million dollars worth of medical supplies. All because Bob committed to pray for Kenya every day for six months.

What’s something that could radically change in your life if you committed to pray every day for six months?

Jesus’ Theology of Prayer

One thing I’ve learned about prayer from what Jesus says in places like Luke 11 is that the way you pray says a lot about what you believe about God. In fact, I think this is at the core of what Jesus teaches us on prayer. Our prayer life is a barometer of our theology. What we believe to be true about God will show up in the way we pray.

Something that is clear to me is that if we want to have effective prayers, then we have to be willing to learn from Jesus. A man I look up to told me, “Everyone prays in their own way.” And on the one hand there’s some truth to that. We’re all unique individuals. But what’s also clear is that effective prayer must be learned. 

The reason I know that is because in this passage, Jesus says, “When you pray, say this…” Now, I don’t think that means our prayers must always match this prayer word for word. In Matthew 6, the other place Jesus gives what we call the Lord’s Prayer, He even says, “Pray then like this.”

So, if Jesus says, “Pray like this,” that tells me that there is a right way to pray, namely by following the model of prayer Jesus gave us. Granted, we see various kinds of prayers in Scripture. And I don’t think Jesus was emphasizing rote memorization over heartfelt passion. But I think there’s incredible value, if we want to grow in our prayer life, to try and learn to pray as He prayed. And most often those other prayers in Scripture follow the same basic pattern of beginning with an exalted view of God Himself.

What if there are times our prayers are not very effective because we aren’t praying in line with what Jesus taught us? Isn’t that what James, Jesus’ brother, was getting at?

“You do not have, because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.” (James 4:2-3)

I don’t want to oversimplify this. Answers to prayer come in all sorts of ways. But Jesus is our Lord, and so it only makes sense that we would want to learn how to pray from Him.

I love the concept of prayer as conversation with God. It’s intimate and relational to think of prayer that way. However, I do think that Jesus was showing us that our prayers need to be focused on God as the Holy One, the King of the universe, and that a kingdom mindset should shape our prayers. When we pray, we should remember that we are part of something far bigger than ourselves. What if you followed Bob’s example and focused on praying for one nation or community or church for a set period of time?

Jesus taught us to keep short accounts, confess sin, forgive others, and see prayer as a way to depend on God for everything in life. But He begins by acknowledging the greatness of God. When we address God in prayer–just as we would in any conversation–we need to be thoughtful about to Whom we are talking. 

God is holy (Isaiah 6:3). God is love (1 John 4:8). God is righteous in all His ways (Psalm 145:17). When you pray, you are talking to the One who holds all creation in the hollow of His hand (Isaiah 40). No space can contain Him. No challenge is too great for Him. Everything was created by Him, through Him, and for Him. He can do all things, and it’s impossible for Him to fail in what He sets out to do! This is the God to whom you pray, and He never changes. He is close to those who recognize they need Him. So, pray with this God–your Father–in mind.

This is why reading great books on God’s attributes like The Knowledge of the Holy by A. W. Tozer and Knowing God by J. I. Packer is important. Or, start with reading Isaiah 6 or Isaiah 40 or Psalm 139. Your prayers will be powerfully shaped by a deeper knowledge of God and His majesty.

Who is this God we are talking to when we pray? 

Jesus would want us to think deeply on that question.

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Praying When God Seems Distant

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“Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.” (Romans 12:12, ESV)

For many people, the only prayer they practice is a kind of formal, perfunctory prayer that is done at family gatherings. Such people struggle with prayer because they’ve never viewed prayer as an intimate conversation with God. Jesus warned us not to be like religious hypocrites who use prayer as a chance to win the admiration of others (Matthew 6:5). At its heart, prayer is about experiencing relational nearness to our Lord and Shepherd.

Prayer Is Essential

The number one reason so many Christians lack spiritual vitality in their life is because of neglect of private prayer. “On the day I called, you answered me; my strength of soul you increased” (Psalm 138:3).

It’s fascinating to study the accounts of great men and women throughout history and how consistently each one of them was a person of fervent and consistent prayer.

George Muller, who helped care for more than 10,000 orphans in England and provided education for more than 120,000 children had a daily habit of beginning each day with several hours of prayer. Charles Simeon rose at 4 am every day, so he could spend the first four hours in prayer. Susannah Wesley, the busy mother of 19 children, would sit in a rocking chair with an apron over her head praying passionately for her children. And her prayers were no doubt effective, because two of her sons Charles and John went on to make a tremendous difference for Christ.

Now, on the one hand, it’s inspiring to hear such stories. But if we’re honest, we can also feel a little guilty that we devote so little time to prayer. Such stories might inspire us while simultaneously making us feel like spiritual failures.

But what if we began small? What if we committed to set aside only ten minutes per day to nothing but sitting in the presence of God, opening up our hearts, communing with our Lord, and interceding on behalf of others?

Zondervan conducted a survey of 678 respondents about prayer, and only 23 felt satisfied with the time they were spending in prayer. In his book, Prayer, Philip Yancey recounts some of the struggles he has had with praying to an invisible God. He writes, “In theory prayer is the essential human act, a priceless point of contact with the God of the universe. In practice prayer is often confusing and fraught with frustration.”

We pray because prayer speaks to a universal human need. We are dependent creatures. We were not made for life without God. As Thomas Merton put it, “Prayer is an expression of who we are… We are a living incompleteness. We are a gap, an emptiness that calls for fulfillment.”

If you don’t know how to pray, our Lord Jesus tells us to begin with acknowledging who God is and what He calls us to be (Matthew 6:9-13). In fact, while many view prayer primarily as a way to get things from God, prayer should be first and foremost about intimacy with God.

Why Does God Sometimes Seem Distant?

And for us to have an intimate relationship with God, we need to acknowledge the ways we have turned away from God and repent. Through the prophet Isaiah, God even tells the nation of Israel that because of their national sins, God has turned away from hearing their prayers.

“When you spread out your hands in prayer,
    I hide my eyes from you;
even when you offer many prayers,
    I am not listening.
Your hands are full of blood!
Wash and make yourselves clean.
    Take your evil deeds out of my sight;
    stop doing wrong.
Learn to do right; seek justice.
    Defend the oppressed.
Take up the cause of the fatherless;
    plead the case of the widow.” (Isaiah 1:15-17, NIV)

The way back to God begins with owning our sin and repenting. That’s a sobering warning. God does not tolerate sin in the midst of His people. He says, “You’re lifting up hands in prayer, but those hands are covered in the blood of the innocent. You’re crying out for Me to listen to you, but you haven’t listened to those most hurting around you.”

This is a warning for all of us. Are we treating others fairly? Are we staying faithful to our marriage vows? Are we treating those who look and think differently from us the same way we treat those who look and think like us? Are we sharing food with the hungry? Are we showing compassion for both the preborn baby in the womb, and also for the unwed mother who feels abandoned and alone? Are we acknowledging the sin in our past, repenting toward God, and seeking the forgiveness that is offered through the finished work of Jesus alone?

Sin is not the only reason God can seem absent in prayer. Even spiritual giants such as King David, Asaph, Ethan the Ezrahite, and the prophet Habakkuk lamented times when God seemed distant (Psalm 13:1; 80:4; 89:46; Habakkuk 1:2). Scripture would urge us to not give up in prayer even when God feels far away. It’s often during the “dark night of the soul,” as John of the Cross put it, that God is doing His deepest work in our souls.

But whatever you do, don’t give up! The Holy Spirit will help us to pray even when we have no idea what to say in prayer (Romans 8:26).

“Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.” (Romans 12:12, ESV)

Praying to a Loving Father

If God were a cold and aloof deity, we could hardly bear the thought of praying to Him, considering how we have all failed Him. But here’s why Jesus taught us to begin by addressing God as “Our Father in heaven” (Matthew 6:9). Think of how a good father will do anything to protect and provide for his children. Consider how quickly a good father is willing to lift his little child in his arms and hold them close to his chest, even after that child has rebelled countless times.

“As a father shows compassion to his children,
    so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him.” (Psalm 103:13, ESV)

This is why Jesus said God is “our Father.” He loves His children beyond words. In one sense our unrepentant sin is indeed the obstacle to intimacy with God. On the other hand, the primary hindrance to prayer is a failure to see God as a Father who loves us with an unshakable and undying love and is eager to forgive His repentant children. Not only that, but God even delights in you!

If we begin here, knowing that our God is a loving and compassionate Father who willingly takes back the prodigal son or daughter and showers him or her with kisses, we will be willing to repent and ask for forgiveness for the wrongs we have done. In prayer, we approach the Father through the Son, who fully paid for all our sin on the cross. That is why the Book of Hebrews says we can boldly approach the throne of grace, knowing that He is a Father who loves us dearly (Hebrews 4:16).

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