Nearly every Christian I’ve talked to would like to grow in their prayer life. And who better to learn from than Jesus of Nazareth? He wants us to pray with greater passion, persistence, and expectancy. According to Jesus, this kind of effective prayer can be learned. That’s why Jesus once told His disciples, “When you pray, say this…”

“Father, hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come.
Give us each day our daily bread, and forgive us our sins,
for we ourselves forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
And lead us not into temptation.” (Luke 11:2-4, ESV)

Persistence in Prayer

I once read about a prayer adventure related by Doug Coe, who has a ministry in Washington DC. Doug tells about a time when Bob, a brand new Christian, came up and said, “Hey, I’ve been reading the Bible and I found where Jesus says, ‘Ask whatever you will in My Name, and you shall receive it.’ Is that really true?”

Doug said, “Well, it’s not a blank check. You have to take it in context of the teachings of the whole Scripture on prayer. But yes—it really is true. Jesus really does answer prayer.”

“Great!” said Bob. “Then I gotta start praying for something. I think I’ll pray for Africa.”

Doug said, “That’s kind of a broad target. Why don’t you narrow it down to one country?”

“All right,” Bob said. “I’ll pray for Kenya.” Bob didn’t know anyone in Kenya. He just wanted to pray for Kenya. So Doug made an unusual agreement. He told Bob that if he prayed for Kenya every day for six months straight and nothing happened, Doug would pay him $500. And if Bob did not pray every day, the whole deal was off.

Bob began to pray and for a long time nothing happened, but he kept at it. One night, he was at a dinner in Washington. He met a woman who helped run an orphanage… in Kenya. Bob really wanted that $500, but he just couldn’t keep it to himself. He said he had been praying for Kenya. He showed so much interest that the woman invited Bob to come visit the orphanage in Kenya. 

Bob was appalled at the poverty and lack of medical supplies he saw. So Bob continued praying. He then wrote to as many pharmaceutical companies as he could, reminding them that they throw away a lot of unsold medical supplies. Bob asked that they instead send those supplies to this orphanage in Kenya. 

Months later, he learned that the orphanage had received over a million dollars worth of medical supplies. All because Bob committed to pray for Kenya every day for six months.

What’s something that could radically change in your life if you committed to pray every day for six months?

Jesus’ Theology of Prayer

One thing I’ve learned about prayer from what Jesus says in places like Luke 11 is that the way you pray says a lot about what you believe about God. In fact, I think this is at the core of what Jesus teaches us on prayer. Our prayer life is a barometer of our theology. What we believe to be true about God will show up in the way we pray.

Something that is clear to me is that if we want to have effective prayers, then we have to be willing to learn from Jesus. A man I look up to told me, “Everyone prays in their own way.” And on the one hand there’s some truth to that. We’re all unique individuals. But what’s also clear is that effective prayer must be learned. 

The reason I know that is because in this passage, Jesus says, “When you pray, say this…” Now, I don’t think that means our prayers must always match this prayer word for word. In Matthew 6, the other place Jesus gives what we call the Lord’s Prayer, He even says, “Pray then like this.”

So, if Jesus says, “Pray like this,” that tells me that there is a right way to pray, namely by following the model of prayer Jesus gave us. Granted, we see various kinds of prayers in Scripture. And I don’t think Jesus was emphasizing rote memorization over heartfelt passion. But I think there’s incredible value, if we want to grow in our prayer life, to try and learn to pray as He prayed. And most often those other prayers in Scripture follow the same basic pattern of beginning with an exalted view of God Himself.

What if there are times our prayers are not very effective because we aren’t praying in line with what Jesus taught us? Isn’t that what James, Jesus’ brother, was getting at?

“You do not have, because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.” (James 4:2-3)

I don’t want to oversimplify this. Answers to prayer come in all sorts of ways. But Jesus is our Lord, and so it only makes sense that we would want to learn how to pray from Him.

I love the concept of prayer as conversation with God. It’s intimate and relational to think of prayer that way. However, I do think that Jesus was showing us that our prayers need to be focused on God as the Holy One, the King of the universe, and that a kingdom mindset should shape our prayers. When we pray, we should remember that we are part of something far bigger than ourselves. What if you followed Bob’s example and focused on praying for one nation or community or church for a set period of time?

Jesus taught us to keep short accounts, confess sin, forgive others, and see prayer as a way to depend on God for everything in life. But He begins by acknowledging the greatness of God. When we address God in prayer–just as we would in any conversation–we need to be thoughtful about Who we are talking to. 

God is holy (Isaiah 6:3). God is love (1 John 4:8). God is righteous in all His ways (Psalm 145:17). When you pray, you are talking to the One who holds all creation in the hollow of His hand (Isaiah 40). No space can contain Him. No challenge is too great for Him. Everything was created by Him, through Him, and for Him. He can do all things, and it’s impossible for Him to fail in what He sets out to do! This is the God to whom you pray, and He never changes. He is close to those who recognize they need Him. So, pray with this God–your Father–in mind.

This is why reading great books on God’s attributes like The Knowledge of the Holy by A. W. Tozer and Knowing God by J. I. Packer is important. Or, start with reading Isaiah 6 or Isaiah 40 or Psalm 139. Your prayers will be powerfully shaped by a deeper knowledge of God and His majesty.

Who is this God we are talking to when we pray? 

Jesus would want us to think deeply on that question.

Have thoughts on this post? I’d love to hear from you!