Baptism Is about New Life

The ordinance of baptism illustrates our freedom and new life in Jesus Christ. It’s an outward picture of what has taken place in our hearts when we surrendered to the Lordship of Christ.

Baptism is very important. The New Testament urges every one of us to repent and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ because of the forgiveness of sin that He won for us on the cross. We’re going to see why it’s so important, what it pictures, and why Christ calls us to be baptized.

Baptism Identifies You as a Follower of Jesus

Every year, the NFL holds a draft where each team announces whom they have chosen, and you see the athlete stand up with joy and excitement on his face. He goes on to the stage and poses there with the commissioner and holds up the jersey with the team’s name on it. Everyone cheers and congratulates him. It’s significant because from then on, you begin to think of that athlete not just as their own name, but as a Cowboy or a 49er or a Seahawk. In some sense, the team they have joined has now become part of their identity.

The significance of identifying with Christ is infinitely more important, but that is a picture of what it means to be baptized. 

It’s a very public statement. It’s a way of demonstrating to all those who are witnesses that you are not the same person you once were. You have switched teams on the cosmic scale. You are no longer living for the world, the devil, or the flesh. You are living for Christ.

You’re telling everyone, “I’m with Jesus. He’s my Lord and Savior. And I’m committing totally to His leadership in my life.” And you’re not just committing for the time being, as long as things go well. You’re committing to Team Jesus as a lifetime member.

Before ascending into the clouds above, Jesus told His followers how to begin reaching the world with the good news of His salvation. This is often called “The Great Commission.”

Jesus said:

“All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Matthew 28:18-20, NIV)

Teaching them the Lord’s commands is what we do every time we gather for worship on Sunday and every time we study Scripture. But the first step in making disciples, Jesus says, is “baptizing them in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.” That’s the launching point for discipleship. It’s the first step showing your commitment to Christ.

Baptism Doesn’t Save you, but Christ Calls Every BELIEVER to be Baptized.

Some people ask, “Now, is baptism necessary for salvation?” Maybe you even grew up in a religious tradition teaching that you need to be baptized in order for your sins to wash away. And to that I say, “What about the thief on the cross?” He repented at the very last minute possible. 

That thief had just been hurling insults at Jesus an hour before. But when he saw the love Jesus had for even His enemies, and the way that Jesus was so clearly the Son of God, he believed. He repented and believed. He showed that faith by saying, “Jesus remember me when you’re reigning on high.” And Jesus didn’t turn to him and say, “Sorry, pal. You didn’t get baptized.” No, He gave him all the assurance he needed that he was forgiven: “Truly, I say to you, today you will be with Me in paradise.” (Luke 23:43). 

The message of salvation is:

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast. For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. (Ephesians 2:8-10, NIV)

Salvation is a gift; it cannot be earned. 

So does baptism save you? Absolutely not, otherwise the thief on the cross would be damned, not in paradise. But that doesn’t mean baptism isn’t important. It’s so important that Jesus included in the final words before His ascension.

Baptism is an Outward Expression of Our Union with Christ

Several years ago, I spoke with a woman about the gospel. I told her that forgiveness is a gift of God. It’s something we can’t earn. Salvation is all by grace, and all we have to do is repent and believe.

She tilted her head and said, “But see I have a problem with that.” I said, “What’s the problem?” And she said, “If people are told they don’t have to do anything to be saved, they’ll just go on living for themselves and hurting others like so many Christians throughout history have.”

I said, “You’re right that Christians haven’t been perfect throughout history. And many who have claimed to be Christians aren’t true Christians. But here’s what I know… when you come to Christ, you become a new creation. Not yet perfect in your daily life, but your life has a new direction because you are now united to Christ by His Holy Spirit.”

This woman’s objection to the gospel of grace has been around for 2,000 years, because Paul addressed that very topic:

What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? (Romans 6:1-2, NIV)

Paul is answering that same objection. Won’t grace mean we can just sin all we want? No! Paul uses the strongest negative here. It literally can be translated: “May it never be!”

Okay, but why, Paul? What’s to keep us from going on a sinning spree, and then celebrating God’s grace?

Answer: “We are those who have died to sin… How can we possibly live that way anymore?” Paul says we died to sin. Death is a pretty extreme word, and Paul uses it for that reason. He says, “We died (past tense, it already happened) to sin.” Okay, when did that happen?

At the cross. Paul’s saying that when Christ died on Calvary, I—in some sense—died, too! In God’s eyes, my old sin-loving self was staked to the cross with Jesus. His death becomes my death. My soul is now knit together with Him by faith.

Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life. For if we have been united with him in a death like his, we will certainly also be united with him in a resurrection like his. (Romans 6:3-5, NIV)

What’s all this saying? Union with Christ is what the gospel is all about. His death becomes our death. His resurrection life will be our resurrection life. It’s as though, by the awesome power of the Holy Spirit, we have been welded to Jesus with an unbreakable bond. What is true of Jesus is now true of us. If Jesus has defeated sin and death, then we too have victory over sin and death.

This is what baptism pictures. It’s all about our union with Christ.

When we go down into the water, we are identifying with His death. As we’re under the water, we are identifying with His burial. And as we come up out of the water, we are identifying with His glorious resurrection from the dead. Baptism is an outward symbol of our victory in Christ.

Water is often a picture of life in Scripture. But being baptized in water also helps us visibly understand the total immersion in Christ and the way He totally cleans us. The Greek word baptizo, where we get “baptized” and “baptism” simply means “immersion.”

So, Paul is saying our union with Christ is our “immersion into Christ Jesus.” That’s conversion. This is why I don’t believe sprinkling water on a baby’s head is what Jesus and the Apostles had in mind. It doesn’t capture the sense of total immersion and cleansing in Christ. And it emphasizes the act of baptism ahead of the true confession of belonging to Christ. A baby can’t proclaim the salvation God has already worked in their hearts, so I think in many ways it undercuts the purpose of baptism.

When we first come to Christ, we become so united to Him that you can even say we are “immersed in Him”— immersed in His grace, His love, and His goodness. All that He is fills us spiritually. That’s what it means to be baptized in the Spirit.

And once you are in Christ, you’re no longer in Adam. You are justified, no longer condemned. The power of sin is broken in your life. That’s what it means to be dead to sin. When you get baptized, you’re boldly expressing, “Sin has no claim on me. I no longer belong to the world; I belong to Jesus!”

Are you interested in learning more about Jesus Christ and what He’s done for you? I’d love to hear from you!

5 Common Myths about Marriage

My wife, Whitney, and I recently celebrated 13 years of marriage. Over those 13 years, God has been so very gracious, and I cannot tell you how grateful I am to be married to such a godly, compassionate, devoted, and beautiful wife and mother of our four children.

As I think about marriage, I can’t help thinking about the many myths that pervade our culture. I firmly believe that marriage is not first about us—it’s about God and His covenantal faithfulness to His people. Therefore, it matters deeply how we think about marriage. Our enemy deceives and distorts our thinking about marriage, often in very subtle and small ways initially, teaching us to believe that marriage exists for reasons that ultimately undermine its grand and glorious purpose. 

We need to be wise as serpents and innocent as doves (Matthew 10:16), identifying counterfeit pictures of marriage for what they are and returning again to its biblical purpose.

Myth #1: “Marriage Exists to Make Me Happy”

Like every diabolical myth that our culture embraces, there is a grain of truth in this one. Does God want us to be blessed, happy, and fulfilled? I would argue He clearly does, but He is equally clear that ultimate satisfaction cannot be found outside of Him. True happiness is found in a relationship with Jesus Christ. He came to give us joy and fullness of life in Him (Psalm 16:11; John 10:10). There is a supernatural joy found in surrendering our lives to His leadership and obeying His commands, which are for our good (John 15:10-11). 

“Happy are those who obey the Lord, who live by his commands.” (Psalm 128:1, GNT)

When we admit we don’t know best and humbly surrender the steering wheel of life to Him, He fills us with His Holy Spirit, and we delight to do His will. 

Marriage is a good and glorious thing. I can certainly testify that Solomon was on the money when he said, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord” (Proverbs 18:22). The problem is that many people think marriage and/or a romantic relationship will fill the void in their soul. How many men have looked dreamily into the eyes of their girlfriend or wife and said, “You complete me.” And what often happens is that he is looking to his girl to be his functional savior who will make his life meaningful. The Bible calls that idolatry. Only God can give us the ultimate satisfaction our hearts hunger for, and to seek it in any created thing is to turn that good thing into a god thing, which is an idol.

Marriage does not exist simply to make you happy. Despite this myth being so common, what many don’t realize is that by looking to marriage to make them happy, they are putting an unbearable weight on their spouse, asking them to be something they simply cannot be. When challenges come, it will devastate you, because you thought, “Marriage is supposed to make me happy, not frustrated.” In the end, believing this myth leaves both husband and wife hurt, angry, and disillusioned.

Look to Jesus to be your Fountain of joy and living water, and then you can pour into your spouse with joyful service. See marriage as an opportunity to grow together through challenges and become more like Jesus as you pray together, serve one another, and care for one another through the good and bad of life. Seek Christ first as your reason for living and, out of that purpose, you can seek to encourage your spouse in their relationship with the Lord.

Myth #2: “Love in Marriage is Primarily about Romantic Feelings”

This myth is founded on a misunderstanding of love itself. In many minds today, love is more equated with a strong—even overwhelming—feeling. At the end of the day, this reduces love to chemical reactions in the brain and emotional highs. We use phrases like “swept off my feet” and “falling in love.” But no matter how powerful such feelings may be in the moment, they were never designed to sustain a marriage or be the foundation of your marriage.

Biblical marriage is covenantal. It is founded on a promise and a commitment. We still see it in our traditional wedding vows: “for better, for worse… till death do us part.” The whole reason for wedding vows is to give your marriage a cement foundation, not a foundation of quicksand. Feelings come and go. And very often, people conclude that because the romantic feelings have faded, they are no longer “in love,” and therefore, to be true to themselves, divorce is the obvious next step. 

But when your marriage is viewed as a covenant, the foundation for that marriage is not fleeting feelings, but the vows made before God. In marriage, something unique happens, as two souls are joined as one.

Jesus rooted His view of marriage in Scripture:

“Haven’t you read the Scriptures?” Jesus replied. “They record that from the beginning ‘God made them male and female.’ And he said, “‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’ Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.” (Matthew 19:4-6, NLT)

Myth #3: “The Grass Is Greener Outside My Marriage”

Many assume that marriage is about personal fulfillment (Myth #1), and then go on to assume that because their marriage is facing challenges, they must have married the wrong person. “I’m not supposed to be unhappy in my marriage.” Some may even go the religious route: “God wouldn’t want me to be unhappy in marriage.” 

When this is your thinking, someone else suddenly seems so perfect for you (an obvious lie to everyone closest to you), and you’re tempted to pursue romance outside your marriage (which hurts everyone involved). The enemy would have us believe we married the wrong person and that our “soul mate” is still out there. This leads to emotional drift and comparison. 

The issue is not whether you are perfectly compatible with your spouse; the issue is with whom you are in covenant. God is utterly opposed to infidelity and seeking romance outside your covenant.

Didn’t the Lord make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union. So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth. “For I hate divorce!” says the Lord, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty,” says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies. “So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife.” (Malachi 2:15-16, NLT)

If the grass seems greener elsewhere, then you probably need to start watering your grass. Cultivate your marriage by communicating honestly and reigniting the romance with date nights, having sex, and finding new things to enjoy together.

Myth #4: “Marriage Should Be 50-50 with No Roles”

This myth is very popular, and it fits with the egalitarian mindset that says, “Men and women are totally equal; therefore, there should be no distinct roles!” Many would say that assigning roles to the husband or wife is outdated and at times demeaning. What this myth gets right is that marriage does involve two people with equal value. But while men and women are equal, they are not equivalent. 

The 50-50 mindset sets up your marriage for scorekeeping, power struggles, resentment, and confusion because it erases the God-given roles the Bible describes for a husband and a wife. According to Scripture, the husband is the sacrificial head of the wife (Ephesians 5:25). He is called to lovingly lead, protect, and provide. The wife is called to be the sacrificial helper (Genesis 2:18). That title “helper” is not demeaning; it is used of God more than anyone else in Scripture. It implies that the man needs help and support if he is going to lead well. Together, this dynamic is powerful and effective.

As Whitney’s husband, I know how badly I need her help and input, but I also recognize that God has called me to lovingly lead as the head of our household. When we work together as God prescribed, our marriage reflects the gospel (Christ and His Church) and is able to flourish as loving partners who embrace the roles God has given us.

This complementary approach says that each plays a vital but different role in making the marriage thrive. God blesses us when our marriage is structured around His good design and under His reign rather than bending to cultural pressures.

Myth #5: “It’s Just a Piece of Paper”

When I first announced that I was engaged to Whitney, a couple of my co-workers at a bank I worked for encouraged me to have a prenuptial agreement. I said I saw no point in doing that. They said, “It’s just covering your bases in case it doesn’t work out.”

What a horrible way to begin a marriage! In my years as a pastor, I have occasionally heard the explanation from couples that they haven’t wedded yet because, after all, “it’s just a piece of paper.” One man I sat down with later told me that the Lord had convicted him, and he admitted that this line was just an excuse for him to live with his girlfriend while putting off getting married as God designed.

What this lie misses is that marriage is far more than a mere contract; it is a covenant entered publicly which points to the glory of the gospel. A contract says, “I’ll commit to you as long as you keep your end of the bargain.” A covenant says, “I am committed to loving you no matter what—for better or for worse.”

God loved us first, not when things were going well, but when we were still sinners running from him (Romans 5:6-8). When we trusted in Christ for salvation, we were sealed with the Holy Spirit and bound in union with the Lord by covenant. Marriage is a signpost for this glorious reality of union with Christ (Ephesians 5:31-33).

Conclusion

Underneath all these myths is the big lie of individualism, which undercuts all relationships with self-centeredness. Rather than choosing to love our spouse through thick and thin, these myths undermine the foundation for the marriage relationship. The real question husbands and wives should be asking is, “How can I honor my marriage by serving my spouse today?” When we have that approach of loving service, we put the gospel of a God of unconditional love on display for the watching world.

Are you interested in learning more about Jesus Christ and what He’s done for you? I’d love to hear from you!

The Hypocritical, the Half-Hearted, and the Hungry for God

In the musical The Greatest Showman, P. T. Barnum (Hugh Jackman) assembles a group of social misfits and turns them into a team of incredible circus performers. One of the standout themes of the film is this hunger for acceptance. The misfits have grown accustomed to being shamed for their appearance or status in a culture where “polite” society disdains outsiders as problematic. But Barnum, a flawed and, at times, abrasive man, nevertheless sees potential in these outsiders and tells them they cannot let the elites define them.

The Greatest Showman reminds me of a parable that Jesus told in Luke 14 about a man who hosted a banquet.

Here’s the context for when Jesus told this parable. Jesus was a guest in the home of a “ruler of the Pharisees,” and several of the religious elites would have been sitting in a U-shaped pattern around a table. Luke implies that Jesus was invited to this dinner party so that the Pharisees could evaluate Him, because he says “they were watching Him carefully” (Luke 14:1).

Unprompted, Jesus tells the ruler that when he has a banquet like this, he shouldn’t invite family and friends; instead, he should invite “the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind” (v. 13). Just imagine how that would have landed, as the religious leaders look at one another uncomfortably. To break the ice, one said, “Blessed is everyone who will eat bread in the kingdom of God!” 

In other words, “Why don’t we just celebrate the fact that we’ll all be included in the banquet hall in the kingdom!” Here’s where Jesus gives the parable of the great banquet.

“A man once gave a great banquet and invited many. And at the time for the banquet He sent His servant to say to those who had been invited, ‘Come, for everything is now ready.’ But they all alike began to make excuses.” (Luke 14:16-18, ESV)

Note that the servant announced the dinner was ready to “those who had been invited.” Kenneth Bailey explains that in that Middle Eastern culture, the host would send out the initial invite seeking an RSVP to find out how much food needs to be prepared, and those who RSVP’d would receive a follow-up message once the banquet was all ready.

So, these guys who give various excuses for not coming had already said they would be coming. Scholars note that the excuses given were incredibly lame. For instance, one says, “I need to go see the land I just bought.” But, much like today, in the ancient world, you wouldn’t purchase a piece of land before first going to see it. The second says he can’t come because he has to go examine some oxen that he bought, but that again wouldn’t make sense. No farmer would purchase livestock prior to examining them.

Today, this would be like someone saying, “I know I said I could make it to your wedding and reception, but I’ve gotta go take a look at the car I just bought.” 

The last excuse, Bailey points out, is the biggest insult. He says he’s married a wife, and he can’t come. What kind of excuse is that? Did he forget he’d be married when he RSVP’d? He didn’t even ask to be excused. He basically just said, “I’m married, so I’m not coming.”

The master of the house gets angry. He’s been publicly insulted in an honor-shame culture. But here’s where Jesus drops a bomb. Instead of retaliating against those punks who just insulted him, the master tells his servant, “Go out quickly to the streets and lanes of the city, and bring in the poor and crippled and blind and lame,’” intentionally echoing what He’d just said a few verses earlier (v. 21). 

The image is startling. Jesus is directing this parable at these religious leaders sitting on either side of Him. They were the ones who knew the Hebrew Scriptures. They knew the promises of the coming Messiah, and they claimed to be awaiting the arrival of God’s kingdom. They are like the guests who had RSVP’d to the banquet. 

But when the Messiah finally shows up and announces God’s kingdom is arriving through Him, they are unwilling to go to the party. So, what does Jesus do? Does He angrily cancel the banquet? No, He goes out to the margins of society—to prostitutes, beggars, tax collectors, and sinners. And He says, “Come to the banquet. The food is ready!”

I love this image, because it teaches us how to think of mission. Many people will reject the invitation to meet Jesus, but that should not deter us. We simply must go to the ones who are hungry for God. 

Religious hypocrites are those that make a show of devotion to God. They use lots of “God talk,” may go to church, and claim to be on God’s side, but they don’t actually want God. If God was to show up in the flesh, they wouldn’t recognize Him. 

Others make only a half-hearted commitment to follow Jesus. They RSVP that they want to go to Heaven, but Jesus is such a low priority for them that the moment something “more pressing” comes along, they have plenty of excuses for ignoring Him.

What I love about this parable is that it shows the incredible grace of God. He wants people to experience His joy. Those with hearts that hunger for Him will come to His banquet. When the servant says he has invited everyone from the city and “still there is room,” it reminds me of the greatness of God’s heart for the lost. 

The master says, “Go out to the highways and hedges and compel people to come in, that my house may be filled” (v. 23).

It’s like the kingdom is ever-expanding, and God wants Heaven crowded. But why does the servant have to “compel people to come in”? Here’s what I see. The invitation is going out to the marginalized, the outcasts, the misfits, to those who have always felt that they don’t belong. But they hesitate.

Why do they have to be compelled? Because at first they cannot believe that some great noble hosting a grand banquet would want them there. They have been convinced that they are worthless, that no one would want their company. 

Here’s the part that breaks my heart. Many people believe this today, and they struggle to believe that God could really love them this much. Grace is not easy to believe. It sounds too good to be true. The hope of the gospel will always feel unreal until you understand the depth of God’s love for you.

If you want to know how deeply God loves you, you have to understand that God is the one hanging on the cross. There we see God in the flesh laying down His life for a world that had rejected Him, spat on Him, insulted Him, and treated Him as the ultimate outsider. The Bible says Jesus became sin for us so that through the shame of the cross, we might be welcomed in. 

I don’t know about you, but when I read this parable, I want to go tell everyone I meet how much Jesus loves them! I want them to know about the redemption He accomplished for them and for the world. If people reject the invitation, I don’t want to be discouraged. I want to go “to the highways and hedges and compel people to come in,” that the Lord’s house may be filled.

The parable ends with Jesus giving a warning: those who were initially invited but never actually came will never taste the banquet. They were so close, but never actually entered the Kingdom of God.

Are you interested in learning more about Jesus Christ and what He’s done for you? I’d love to hear from you!

What Is the Gospel?

The gospel is the story that Christians have to tell the world. It’s the message of salvation for a world that is spiritually adrift. As we speak the gospel to others, we act as “ambassadors for Christ” (2 Corinthians 5:20). To remember the basics of the gospel, you can use the basic outline of God, Humanity, Christ, and Response.

God

Who is God? He’s the Creator of all that is (Genesis 1). He is the reason everything exists, and everything was created to bring Him glory. Unlike the gods of paganism, He is not merely part of creation or responsible for one aspect of creation, like the rain or the sun. He is the King over all the universe. The gospel must begin with God, because nothing makes sense apart from Him.

What is God like? God is holy, just, and loving. To be holy is to be set apart as spotless, pure, and perfect. He is unlike us in that He can never make a mistake and has never wronged anyone. And because He is just, God is a perfectly fair Judge who must hold the world accountable. It would violate His nature to sweep sin and evil under the rug of the universe. He must exact a just penalty for every single violation of His moral will. God is also loving, and this is tremendously good news. In fact, not only is God loving, the Bible even says “God is love” (1 John 4:8). As the Bible lays out, God has eternally existed in a perfect relationship of love as three persons in the one God: Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

Humanity

Because God is love, we were created for a relationship of love with Him. We were made for Him, and we will never find our purpose in any created thing. We were created to be like Him in many ways, but we have all “fallen short” of His glory (Romans 3:23). Through the cunning deception of our enemy, the devil, we have all missed our true purpose in life by choosing our own way (see Genesis 3).

According to the Bible, the world of humanity is now spiritually lost and broken. That’s why we all see so much evil and suffering in this world, and we all know we’ve done things we knew to be wrong. We each have wanted to do things our own way, and because of that we have incurred a spiritual debt that will have to be accounted for. The worst part is that we have deceived ourselves into thinking we are okay on our own, which has only exacerbated the spiritual darkness that has clouded our thinking (1 John 1:5-10). In short, we have all rejected God as our authority, and because of that, we are destined for a fair and just judgment.

Christ

The glorious good news of the gospel is that God didn’t leave us in our desperate and hopeless state. He promised to send a Savior to the people of Israel, One called “Messiah” or “Christ.” The surprising twist is that this coming Christ would be God Himself. He showed the full measure of His love by entering the very world that had rejected Him. John’s Gospel says of God the Son: “He was in the world, and the world was made through Him, yet the world did not know Him” (John 1:10). Incredibly, the infinite Son of God became small, by taking on human flesh and being born of a virgin (Merry Christmas!). Growing up, His friends knew Him as Jesus the son of Joseph. As Jesus grew to adulthood, He lived a perfectly spotless life. His own followers, who knew Him best and wrote about Him later testified that “He committed no sin, neither was deceit found in His mouth” (1 Peter 2:22).

Jesus lived that perfect life and taught some amazing things, but ultimately, Jesus didn’t merely come to give us an impossible example to which we must aspire. He came to give His life. For His claims to be divine, He got crucified. And as He hung on the cross, suspended between Heaven and Earth, He bore the very sin that was separating man and his Maker. The judgment our sins deserved fell on Him, and He was willingly sacrificing His life so that we might live. But that wasn’t the end of the story.

Response

On the third day, Jesus rose to life again and appeared to His chosen followers so that they might testify to His resurrection and proclaim that forgiveness of sins is available. He told them that all that He had accomplished had been written about the promised Christ in their Hebrew Scriptures: “Thus it is written, that the Christ should suffer and on the third day rise from the dead, and that repentance for the forgiveness of sins should be proclaimed in His name to all nations” (Luke 24:46-47).

To “repent” is to change one’s mind about who’s really in charge. It’s about doing a spiritual U-Turn, where you stop living first for yourself and start living for God. But this isn’t about changing behavior to earn forgiveness. God has promised to save only by grace those who have put their faith in Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord (see Ephesians 2:8-10; Romans 10:9-10). And as you are united to Jesus by faith, you receive a new spiritual life. The Holy Spirit comes inside, and from that point on, we will be transformed more and more into the likeness of God. The secret to repentance is being honest. We have to admit we have gone wrong, that we have done things we know we shouldn’t have, and that our only hope is the forgiveness and cleansing that is offered in Christ. Not only that, but when you trust in Christ, you join the people of God, known as the church. Through fellowship and community, we encourage each other on life’s journey.

This is the story we have to tell. It is a story about reality; it’s an overview of what life is really all about and what God has done to redeem us from our self-deception. It is the hope of the world, because through Jesus, we learn that this life is not all there is. Because of the Cross, our guilt does not have the last word. Because of the Resurrection, death is not the end. There is an eternity before us, and everyone will have to stand before God. My hope and prayer is that you will stand before Him, not dressed in your own shoddy goodness, which will not measure up and will leave us eternally lost, but that you will stand clothed in the perfect righteousness of Jesus Christ and experience eternal joy in His kingdom forever.

Remember Whose You Are

Disney’s The Lion King (1994)
So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.” (Romans 8:15, NLT)

Sometimes when I watch movies with my kids, I like to ask them what “gospel themes” they saw in the movie. I do this, because I recognize watching movies is something they love to do (me too, actually), and I want to seize as many opportunities as I can to disciple them in the way of Jesus and help them develop a biblical worldview—even at a very young age.

Now, this isn’t as torturous as it sounds. I don’t pause the movie every five minutes to quiz them. I try to talk after we’ve finished the movie. Sometimes, we only get through half a movie during the evening, so I will try talking with them at bedtime about where they saw things like evil, redemption, hope, and sacrifice show up in the movie. 

Disney’s classic animated film The Lion King is one that actually carries a pretty powerful message about identity. I know, I know. There are some pantheistic themes to The Lion King. It’s good to address those, too. But I would argue that the whole “circle-of-life” thing isn’t actually the main theme of the movie. At the core, I think it’s all about how our identity shapes our purpose in life.

The Lion King is loosely based on Shakespeare’s Hamlet, with the whole bit about the evil uncle slaying Hamlet’s father so that he can be king. But in The Lion King, as young Simba runs away in fear, he also ends up running away from responsibility.

He meets Timon and Pumbaa, a lovable meerkat and warthog duo that has developed a philosophy of life called “Hakuna Matata,” which apparently means “No Worries.” They are the classic slackers. They talk about embracing a lifestyle of “no rules, no responsibilities,” and how this leads to a carefree existence. 

Honestly, I think there are a lot of Timons and Pumbaas in our world—those who would rather eat a plate of bugs than embrace any level of responsibility. The two teach Simba how to belch, joke, and sing. With nothing better to do, they speculate about the mysteries of the universe with no true authority or guidance but their own imaginations. Ironically, I think these comical clods are meant to be an indictment of where running from responsibility will take you—looking for satisfaction by eating slimy worms! Notice we never meet a Mrs. Timon or Mrs. Pumbaa.

Simba joins their lot for a time, until he runs into a freaky baboon named Rafiki, who tells him: “The question is… Who are you?” Simba regretfully admits he’s not so sure anymore. 

Then comes the great turning point in the plot—the reason The Lion King is a compelling story, kids’ movie or no. Simba has a vision of his father, Mufasa, who says, “Simba, you have forgotten me.” “No,” Simba replies, “How could I?” Mufasa continues, “You have forgotten who you are, and so, you have forgotten me… Remember who you are. You are my son and the one true king.”

That reminder is what makes all the difference and compels Simba to return to his place as king. In the same way, you and I who belong to the one true King need to remember who we are.

When you come to Jesus Christ, you leave your old identity behind, and you find your true identity in Him. Through our union with Christ, God our Father adopts us into His family, and He calls us His beloved children with whom He is well pleased (Matthew 3:17; Romans 8:14-17). 

To our great astonishment, God now considers us royalty, destined to be co-heirs with Christ our King. This thought should blow our minds. If we really contemplate what this means, it just might!

The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him. (Romans 8:16-17, ESV)

We belong to God our Father, and that means we who suffer in union with Jesus will one day be glorified in union with Jesus. See if your soul can take in the magnitude of that thought. 

What does this mean? Well, for starters it means that we have indescribable value in God’s eyes. We matter more to Him than we could possibly fathom. It means there is a purpose and meaning to our lives beyond “Hakuna Matata.”

Ironically, if your existence is just about a grand “circle of life,” then the “No Worries” lifestyle actually makes sense. We live. We eat. We die. Our bodies become food for bacteria. So, why worry about how you live? Your “life force” is going to keep going around the same circle anyway, so you might as well live it up and enjoy yourself for your brief segment of the circle.

But if we belong to God, we really do have a purpose in this life that will carry forward into eternity. You were made to make a difference—to know God and to make Him known. It also means that God has a calling on your life. Like Simba, we have an enemy who wants to thwart our Father’s plans for us. He lies about our identity. He tells us we don’t matter to God, that we’ve sinned too much to be forgiven or used by Him. 

That is why we have to take up the shield of faith, Scripture says, to protect us from all the fiery darts of the evil one (Ephesians 6:16). Only through faith in what God says about us can we overcome and be more than conquerors through Him who loves us.

Remember whose you are. If you have trusted in the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus, you have a new identity. You belong to Jesus Christ. You are clothed in His righteousness. You are forgiven. You are valuable in your Father’s sight. He adopted you as His own child because He loves you, and He is not ashamed of you. He is well pleased to call you His own.

In love He predestined us for adoption to Himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of His will, to the praise of His glorious grace, with which He has blessed us in the Beloved.” (Ephesians 1:4-5, ESV)

Are you interested in learning more about Jesus Christ and what He’s done for you? I’d love to hear from you!

One Thing

“Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. (Philippians 3:8, ESV)

The Apostle Paul had one all-consuming passion: to know Jesus Christ more. This one passion fueled everything in his life. He was willing to sacrifice his time, energy, and body. He was willing to go wherever he needed to go and do whatever needed to be done. He was willing to trade everything–recognition, applause for his accomplishments, favor among his colleagues–all for the sake of Jesus.

If you were to boil it down, what is the one thing that is driving your life right now? What is the purpose that defines your life? 

If an alien from another planet was to investigate your life closely to try to determine what you care about, why you get up in the morning, and what you might even die for, what would it be? 

Although there are one thousand and one things we should care about and are important, what if God wants your life to be driven by one thing? And, yes, there are a million and one habits you and I could work on, but if you could name one discipline in life right now that God wants you to practice, what would it be? I think it’s important to focus on that one thing, because otherwise it could be crowded out by the host of distractions that are going to come your way today, tomorrow, and every day after that.

But imagine for a moment where your life might take you in the next five or ten years if you put into practice this one thing on a daily basis. Whatever it is–ask God to empower you by His Spirit to commit to this discipline. And when you do that, you’re living by faith because you’re trusting that God will bring the results if you don’t neglect this daily habit. What is that habit?

Sit with that question for a bit. Let it marinate. Imagine what your life might look like if you lived with single-minded devotion for Jesus Christ above all else. What would you need to sacrifice? What would you have to let go of? What would you have to do? Ask God to show you what one thing is critical and might just transform the trajectory of your life, making you into a more loving, joy-filled, purpose-oriented person. Whatever it is, you’re not going to find it in your past. God is holding out to you something in your future.

“I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.” (Philippians 3:12-14, NLT)

Father, You bring light and life to all who commit their lives to follow You. I pray that both the person reading this and I would be fueled by one great passion: to glorify Jesus Christ all our days. Would you work in our hearts and empower us to live this journey of faith with eyes on Your Son, Jesus. It’s in His Name I pray. Amen.

Are you interested in learning more about Jesus Christ and what He’s done for you? I’d love to hear from you!

How Teachable Are You?

“Be not wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord, and turn away from evil.” (Proverbs 3:7, ESV)

As long as we are still here on this earth, we need reminders. I’m 37 now, and I can still remember a conversation with one of my high school teachers twenty years ago that has stuck with me. I think it stuck with me, because overall I thought of myself as a good student. But during that time, I was facing some challenges and not making the best decisions.

He told me he noticed that during the first part of the school year, I was doing well in class, but lately, it seemed like I wasn’t really taking the subject seriously. Initially, I wanted to brush him off. Why is he picking on me? I’m a good student, after all! 

I think he recognized something was off. When a student has done well consistently throughout the year, but they suddenly bomb an assignment–and then another one–the issue is probably the student, not the teacher. For me, it was an issue of teachability. His words stuck with me: “I’m saying this to you because I know you’re capable of more.”

Ouch. Those words stung! It felt like he was calling me lazy. And you know what? He wasn’t wrong! For various reasons, I had stopped putting in the effort. And he noticed and told me as much.

It can be hard to receive counsel from others. We tell ourselves that we know what’s best for ourselves. On top of that, we live in a culture that says you should trust your feelings above all else. Christians need to remember we are in a battle with the ideas, selfish desires, and spiritual forces that oppose the gospel (commonly called “the world, the flesh, and the devil”). And part of that battle is remembering how easily we can fool ourselves. That’s why we need to hear instruction and counsel from others.

The wise king Solomon taught: “Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment” (Proverbs 18:1). 

In other words, the one who refuses the counsel of others is instead surrounding him or herself with bad thoughts. The man who doesn’t let others speak into his life or hold him accountable is ultimately the fool headed for a train wreck. Whether he realized it or not, my teacher’s words to me were like a wake-up call: “Don’t be a fool!” Or said in a slightly nicer tone: “Don’t waste what God has given you!”

Wisdom begins with recognizing how much we need it and how following our own desires and impulses can so easily lead us astray.

Solomon also said: 

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
  and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
  and he will make straight your paths.
Be not wise in your own eyes;
  fear the Lord, and turn away from evil.
It will be healing to your flesh
    and refreshment to your bones.” (Proverbs 3:5-8, ESV)

How teachable are you? Do you let people speak truth and wisdom into your life? Do you let Scripture direct your paths and shape your thinking–or is God on mute in your life?

So often we refuse to listen to our critics or those who disagree with us, believing we already know best. But what if God is sending such people to get our attention? 

The gospel of Jesus Christ is the greatest source for humble teachability. It tells us that we have all made a mess of things through our sin, but at the same time, we have a God who loves us unconditionally–and proved it through the sacrificial death of Jesus. Knowing you are so easily swayed by sin creates humility. You can no longer believe that you can’t be deceived or led astray. At the same time, because God so dearly loves you, you have every confidence to confess where you’ve been duped or made bad decisions, knowing He forgives and restores. 

We have all been in that place. So, know that your sins and mistakes doesn’t disqualify you from God’s love. If we are rooting ourselves securely in His love, it can become the very thing that opens us to receive instruction and correction. 

So let me encourage you to make a commitment to be teachable this coming week. Listen to those who want to provide godly counsel. 

Is there anyone who you need to talk with that you have been avoiding?

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How Can I Be Sure I’m Going to Heaven?

It’s hard to trust every promise you hear these days. Most of us have had the experience of someone breaking a promise they made to us. 

I remember a time early in our marriage when Whitney was away at a women’s Bible study one night, and a man selling vacuum cleaners came to our house. I told him right away at the door that I’m not interested. He said, “Oh, I’m not really needing to sell you anything. All I have to do is get enough demonstrations done, and then I get paid for that.” 

“Really?” I said. “You mean you get paid just for coming into my house, vacuuming my carpet, and then leaving without me spending a dime?” “That’s right,” he said. So, I reluctantly agreed, but I made him promise that he wouldn’t try to sell me anything. 

As it turns out, his demonstration included telling me about every part of the vacuum cleaner. I listened respectfully as he explained the marvels of every brush, wand, and hose. He finally got to the point where he demonstrated the vacuum cleaner’s power, but not before dumping some dirt on our carpet. No, he didn’t ask first. Just dumped some dirt and said, “Watch this.” Apparently, he only planned to clean up the mess he himself was going to make.  

After about 15 minutes into this demonstration, he said, “You know, you seem like a nice guy. I want to tell you about an exclusive sale we’re only allowed to give to a few.” Oh boy, here it comes.  

No, I didn’t buy the vacuum cleaner. And no, I wasn’t impressed with the fact that he broke his promise and tried to sell me something. 

We all know what it’s like when someone breaks his or her promise. It’s irritating in cases like my encounter with the vacuum salesman, but in other cases, it can be devastating. We hear politicians make promises they can’t keep. We hear bosses make promises and then forget to keep them. Husbands and wives make vows and then break them. And so, because there’s a sour taste in our mouth from all the broken promises, sometimes it’s hard for us to believe God when He gives us a promise. 

But not all promises are meant to be broken. Some are so unbreakable that they are rooted in eternity. God is a good Father, and a good Father never wants His children to doubt His love for them. He wants them to know they are His–not just for today, but forever. 

Something every Christian wants is assurance of eternal life, but we will never have it until we learn to look away from ourselves to Jesus Christ as the Author of our salvation from beginning to end.  

The Apostle Paul delivered this promise in Romans 8:

“For those whom He foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, in order that He might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom He predestined He also called, and those whom He called He also justified, and those whom He justified He also glorified.” (Romans 8:29-30, ESV) 

The phrase “those whom” occurs four times in these verses. The reason for that is to emphasize he is describing the same group throughout this whole section. Also, note that God is the main Actor here. God is the One who works all things together for good (v. 28). God foreknows, predestines, calls, justifies, and glorifies.  

Those Whom He Predestined, Called, Justified, and Glorified

Predestination means “determine before” or “mark out for a destination.” In other words, God marked out this group ahead of time. Calling means God supernaturally called you to Himself through the preaching of the gospel. Third, justification means God declares you to be right with Him. That happens at faith (Romans 5:1). The moment we trust in Jesus as our Savior, God wipes out our record of sin. Essentially, God takes your record of sin and puts it through a cosmic paper shredder. And then He burns that. There is no longer any legal record of your sin debt in God’s courtroom. But on top of that, God credits us with the perfect life of Christ. That’s what it means to be justified. To be glorified means to be made glorious, brought into the glorious presence of God. It is to be brought home to glory in Heaven to be with your Creator for all eternity.

It’s essential to understand that God can legally and righteously do all this because of the cross. It’s like this. We were on death row, ready to face execution as a penalty for our sins. We broke God’s Law, and we offended His holiness. But then—glorious good news!—Jesus came and took our place on death row and endured the penalty for our sins. He stepped in and the hammer of judgment fell on Him, not us. So when we put our faith in Christ’s sacrifice, God can legally declare us just, holy, and righteous, because Jesus willingly exchanged our record for His. He got our sin; we get His righteousness.  

Please notice from all this that our legal status as being right with God had nothing to do with how good we were. We all like to say to ourselves, “You know, I’m not perfect, but at least I’m doing better than that guy.”  We love to compare ourselves to others. 

Surveys show that nearly every American thinks that he or she is morally better than average. But, if you do the math, you can’t have 98% of people doing better than average. It just doesn’t work.  

My Only Boast: The Cross

The more you understand the gospel, the more you see that our confidence before God can’t come from looking at ourselves. Our confidence has everything to do with the fact that our sins could only be paid for one way. There was only one way we could escape judgment—not by works, but by faith in Jesus Christ. Only Jesus could expunge our record of sins. Only Jesus could rescue us. Our confidence is in Him. 

Paul said, “The only thing I have to boast about is the Cross. That’s it! Otherwise, I’ve got nothing!” 

So often Christians struggle with assurance, because they look first at their own life. They think, I haven’t lived the life God wants me to. I haven’t lived up to all the things that the Bible calls me to be. My life doesn’t always perfectly show the fruit of the Spirit. So am I really saved?  

There is a place for considering your own life. The Bible does say to examine your life and consider whether you are loving Jesus and seeking to honor Him as Lord of your life (2 Cor. 13:5). Because if you have no signs of repentance, that’s a serious concern. James says, “Faith without works is dead” (James 2:26).

But the problem is that your works were never meant to be the basis of your assurance. If they were, you would never be confident of salvation. You would always see there was work to be done and changes that needed to happen. Because we aren’t perfect. No, the ground of assurance is not in looking to yourself but looking outside yourself to Christ on the cross and then the empty tomb and then seeing Him right now at the right hand of the Father interceding for you. It’s about letting the truth of the gospel wash over you again and again. 

Those with true, saving faith don’t become bored with the gospel. If you’re bored with the gospel, then the fullness of the gospel hasn’t sunk in. Because the glory of God’s grace, the beauty of Christ’s personal love for you, and the joy of forgiveness are never boring. 

Take this promise of Jesus to heart.  

“Those the Father has given me will come to me, and I will never reject them. For I have come down from heaven to do the will of God who sent me, not to do my own will. And this is the will of God, that I should not lose even one of all those he has given me, but that I should raise them up at the last day. For it is my Father’s will that all who see his Son and believe in him should have eternal life. I will raise them up at the last day.” (John 6:37-40, NLT, emphasis added) 

Let me encourage you to come back to this promise over and over and plead with the Holy Spirit to drill these truths into your heart until you can say, “Yes! That’s true of me! I have come to Jesus in repentant faith, so God has promised eternal life to me.” 

This same security is found here in Romans 8:

"And those whom He predestined He also called, and those whom He called He also justified, and those whom He justified He also glorified.”  (Romans 8:30, ESV) 

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Am I Good Enough?

This is the question lurking just below the surface in every human heart. Have I done enough? Do people accept me for who I am? Am I good enough?

The gospel of Jesus Christ is the most stunning message in history. It’s the message that God saves us by sheer grace, but it starts by telling us what we don’t want to hear. It tells us that we have come up short. That we came into this world needy, desperate, and hopelessly lost in sin. That we are by nature in rebellion against the God who made us. I know that sounds harsh. It flies in the face of our culture’s messaging and much of what we were told since we were little.

We’re told “You are enough,” “You have what it takes,” and “You’ve got this.” Apparently, we are mind-blowingly awesome in every single way just the way we are. Sound familiar? It’s interesting how often we have to tell ourselves (or be told) we are awesome. 

According to Christianity, we are “fearfully and wonderfully made” and we need to know how  valuable we are as God’s image bearers. But the Bible never encourages us to look within for a boost of confidence or tell ourselves, “I don’t need outside help.”

I recently saw a school sign that read, “It’s easy to forget, so here’s a little reminder: You’re Awesome!”

Isn’t it a little strange that we are so incredibly awesome, and yet we have to be told that repeatedly? (I also find it a bit ironic that when someone actually seems to believe this and starts boasting about how awesome they are, we call that person a narcissist). 

Brené Brown tells us, “We live in a culture of scarcity, of never enough. There is only one way out of scarcity – and that is enoughness. At some point we need to say: I am enough.” We look at that quote and think, Yes, I am enough. But somehow we struggle to believe it. If I really am good enough, smart enough, and have enough “enoughness”… why do I need to keep hearing this from people like Brené Brown?

The truth is that Brown’s counsel only leads to greater self-obsession, which is ultimately exhausting and joy-sapping. Self-validation is a weighty burden the human soul was never meant to carry.

I have a theory. I think the reason we crave words of approval is that deep down, we know the truth: Something is deeply wrong inside. I’m not everything I should be.

The Bible basically says, “Yes, there really is something wrong with you. Only…it’s worse than you think. But the good news is that if you can believe the hard truth about how bad you really are, you are finally ready to hear the good news of grace.”

The Bible tells us that hard truth we so desperately need to hear. Now, I’ll warn you, it can sting a bit to hear this for the first time. Just remember what Jesus said: “The truth will set you free.” You’ll be ready to receive the cure, only if you’re willing to hear the diagnosis.

On your own and apart from Jesus Christ:

  • You’re not righteous or good. (Romans 3:10)
  • You’re dead in your sins. (Ephesians 2:1)
  • You’re selfish by nature. (Romans 2:13)
  • You’re caught in a web of self-deception. (Romans 3:13)
  • You’re prone to bitterness, anger, and hatred. (Romans 3:14-17)
  • You don’t fear or revere the God who gave you life. (Romans 3:18)
  • You suppress the truth about God, because you don’t want to be accountable. (Romans 1:18)
  • And because of all this, you deserve the just and holy wrath of God. (Romans 1:18; Ephesians 2:3; John 3:36)

Ouch! But as much as that might hurt to hear, remember the Bible doesn’t create sin in our hearts; it simply shows us what’s already there. We will never look for the remedy until we understand we have a spiritual disease called sin, and this disease will kill us unless something drastically changes.

Very often, people new to Christianity and the church will hear this much and tell themselves, “Okay, if that’s true, I better change my act.” This is our default setting. We tell ourselves that if we have gone astray, then we must simply get back on the right path. If we have become morally filthy, then we must clean ourselves up.

The problem is that we are trying to atone for our own sins, and that will never work. What we need is the atonement of Jesus Christ. And until we know what Jesus went through for us, we will never understand how deeply God loves us. Without the cross, God’s love will always seem like a shallow idea rather than a soul-transforming reality.

The gospel explains that we could never be good enough, but Jesus was good enough for us. As the Son of God, Jesus lived the perfectly righteous life we should have lived. And He died the death we deserved in our place as our Substitute. 

The culture is constantly trying to build up my self-confidence, but confidence in myself is not the answer. My confidence is this: At the Cross, Jesus bore all my sins and fully paid for them. He endured the punishment that was coming to me. He paid the debt that I owed because of my sins. My confidence is His blood and righteousness.

Or, as Paul put it:

“But far be it from me to boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by which[b] the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world.” (Galatians 6:14)

On our own, we could never be good enough. Only Jesus is good enough. And through faith in His righteous life and substitutionary death, we are forgiven of all our sin and reconciled to a holy God. God declares us to be as righteous as Jesus. This is the doctrine of justification. Faith unites us to Christ, and then His righteousness is imputed to us. Once we are in Christ, God the Father sees us clothed in the righteousness of Christ. 

I am not enough. Jesus is enough.

To be justified by faith in Christ means you are no longer looking to your own moral performance for your standing with God. You can be honest about your personal shortcomings and sins, because you stand righteous (or infinitely good enough) in Jesus Christ. Your confidence isn’t in your awesomeness; it’s in the awesome love of God.

But here’s the radical truth: God loved you and me when we were everything on the list above. You and I were once as lost as can be, and yet God loved us even at our lowest. Knowing this love personally will give you all the confidence you need to face life’s various challenges. God is now for you. Who can be against you? (Romans 8:31)

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Failure Is Never Final

Before Jonas Salk discovered the vaccine for polio, he had to fail 200 times. When he was asked how he felt about those 200 failures, Salk said, “I never failed two hundred times in my life. I was taught not to use the word ‘failure.’ I just discovered two hundred ways how not to vaccinate for polio.”

Just think about that for a minute. 200 times. What if he had given up after that 200th attempt? Or even the 20th attempt? Polio was a deadly disease that afflicted thousands prior to the discovery of the vaccine. The disease claimed the life of 3,000 people in 1952 alone. Thank God, Salk didn’t quit early. Today, polio is almost completely eradicated across the world. Salk had to think of his failures in a way most people don’t in order to move forward to success.

In the Gospel of John, we read about another man with a series of failures. Peter grievously sinned by denying he even knew Jesus three times. But the truly amazing thing is how Jesus responded to Peter’s failures. Jesus didn’t abandon Peter or discard him as no longer useful to him. In fact, He gave Peter a position of extraordinary prominence in His newly launched church. 

This is an important reminder. When you have a God of infinite grace, failure can become a steppingstone to true success. It’s an opportunity for growth, if you’re willing to receive God’s grace. Every time you honestly confess your sin to God, think of it as taking one more step toward becoming the person He wants you to be.

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:9, ESV)

Most Christians will readily agree that confession leads to forgiveness, but do we really believe that Jesus cleanses us from all unrighteousness? 

There is tremendous freedom in bringing our failures into the light of God’s presence. He is a God who graciously forgives, but like a good father, He calls us to confess where we’ve gone wrong.

If I snap at my wife Whitney in the morning and then later that evening come home and say, “Hey, honey, what’s for dinner?” There’s still going to be a rift between us. Before our relationship can be restored to what it should be, I have to go through the painful experience of saying, “I was wrong for how I snapped at you earlier. Will you forgive me?” That’s how it always goes with relationships. 

We might assume Peter’s leadership career was over after that failure in the temple courts, but Jesus fully restored Peter. Think about that. It’s hard to imagine something more grievous than denying his Lord three times, but Jesus restored Peter and chose him to be the guy to first proclaim the gospel of grace in Jerusalem.

The same kind of thing could be said of Paul. He had a record of persecuting Christians and blaspheming Jesus, yet God used him to first take the gospel to the Gentile world. Paul even says that God chose people like him because they would showcase His grace and the fact that His cross and resurrection set us free from our past and restore us to our true calling (see 1 Timothy 1:16).

This is what makes Christianity so amazing! Because of the gospel, past failure doesn’t disqualify us from the calling God has on our lives.

While it’s important to confess sin to the Lord, it’s equally important to see that the Lord can grow you through your failures. Never give in to the lie that God is done using you because of something in your past. Maybe you’re holding onto something you need to surrender to Him.

So many Christians feel defeated by past failures and feel they can never move on and move forward in their walk with the Lord. If that’s you, please know that is not a word from God. That’s not Jesus telling you you’re disqualified. That’s the devil.

Revelation 12:10 calls the devil “the Accuser of our brothers and sisters, who accused them day and night before God.” This is one of Satan’s tactics. He will urge us to quit when we’ve blown it. Or tell us we’ve tried God’s patience too many times. Watch out for the critics you face in life. The more you say “Yes” to God’s calling on your life, the more critics will attack you.

But every time you stumble and fall, don’t let Satan sideline you.  By God’s grace, see it as another opportunity to rise again in the power of the Lord and get back in the fight.

Theodore Roosevelt said:

“It’s not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena… who, at best, knows in the end the triumph of great achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly. So that his place will never be with those cold timid souls who know neither victory or defeat.”

If you feel like you’ve failed Jesus too many times, see John 21:15-19 as an invitation to sit down by the fire with Jesus. Hear Him asking you, “Do you love Me?” 

And if the answer is “Yes,” then there’s always hope. And that love can drive you to keep following after Him.

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